relationships and intimacy

The Body as Politics: Who Writes the Rules for Looking at Each Other Naked?

The gay community created a precise body vocabulary — twink, bear, jock, daddy — that helps us find what we want. But that same vocabulary builds ...

Barrier: Why my body is asking for a passport, not just a look

Why does my body ask for a passport, not just a look? In a world of instant gratification and quick hookups, I wait for a connection — not a relatio...

Friends with Benefits: How I Learned to Be Free and Tied at the Same Time

What if you don't want a classic relationship, but you don't want to be alone either? Friends with benefits can be stronger than many official partner...