Age Gap: Who Counts the Years When Love (or Passion) Doesn't Ask for a Date of Birth?
Age gap in gay relationships: advantages, drawbacks, myths about roles and the question of power. When years are just a number, and when they become a...
Top, Bottom, Vers: The Grammar We Invented, and Sometimes Forget Is Just Language
Top, bottom, vers – roles that carry the weight of identity. On myths, masks, attraction to the same role and the freedom to be complex....
The Body as Politics: Who Writes the Rules for Looking at Each Other Naked?
Twink, otter, bear, daddy… How we ourselves wrote the hierarchy of bodies and why the question isn't "are you good enough", but whose standards you'...
Barrier: Why my body is asking for a passport, not just a look
Why I can't go to bed with a stranger, however much I might want to. On trust, fear and the price I pay when I look for connection before sex....
Friends with Benefits: How I Learned to Be Free and Tied at the Same Time
FWB isn't "without emotions". How I found a relationship that combines closeness, sex and freedom – without labels and without pressure....